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A modest proposal

Published: Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Updated: Wednesday, June 9, 2010 00:06

modesty

Jorge Montalvo

Summer doesn't have to mean skimpy. We all know it's hot, but the clothes - or lack thereof - worn around this time of year leave little to the imagination. It seems like I can't walk anywhere in town without seeing a half-clothed woman shamelessly flaunting her attributes for the entire world to see. Not only does this have potential for personal safety concerns, but it also leads to poor first impressions.

Those who frequent situations with alcohol should carefully consider how their clothes strike the people around them. Even though women should be safe no matter what, showing too much skin when around men who are more prone to elevated emotions and lowered inhibitions can lead to dangerous situations.


Even those who seem perfectly trustworthy have the capacity to make incredibly stupid decisions under the influence. There is no acceptable reason for men to act like animals, but showing too much skin in these situations can heighten the inherent dangers.

By dressing to attract attention, remember this includes unwanted attention. Sexual assault, stalking and harassment are not issues to be tossed around lightly, but in this context, they are of utmost importance. Nobody wants to be in a situation that could endanger them even slightly; dressing a little more modestly in that environment can be a preventative measure.

Immodest dress also does not portray an image of dignity or self-respect. "It looks like they're just rebelling or trying to be cool," said Dane Molire, a senior biomedical science major. "It makes them seem like they're immature."

Women shouldn't have to worry about impressing men, especially at the expense of their self-respect and safety. Guys who do think that a women should dress down to show off are not worth the trouble anyway. A man who is impressed by the very thing that revealing clothes accentuate will most likely be shallow and disrespectful.

The way you dress also sets an example for the younger girls, who can be more impressionable and care more about being cool. Daisy Dukes and a revealing half of a top are creepy and inappropriate on younger girls.

"I wish it wasn't the style to be immodest," said Amanda Boudreaux, a senior meteorology major. "When you go to the pool, if you're covered, you aren't following the ‘cool' trend."

According to the Bible, Christianity is a religion that emphasizes modest clothing. As the apostle Paul wrote in 1 Timothy 2:9, "women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control." The direct consequence of immodesty is to arouse illicit desires in men. More importantly, revealing clothes do not reflect the image of one who respects her body. God has called his children to a life of purity and holiness that extends beyond a once a week service. Christianity, however, is not the only religion that supports modesty, and even those with no religious affiliation can benefit from covering up.

Yes, it's hot, but please dress in a way that shows dignity and class rather than skin. Dressing modestly is not only safer, but it reflects true character and self-respect, along with respect for others.

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Womanist
Sat Jun 19 2010 06:45
Disgusting. Absolutely disgusting. This article reeks of slut shaming and rape apologia.

Here's a few tips:

Sexual Assault Prevention Tips Guaranteed to Work!

1. Don’t put drugs in people’s drinks in order to control their behavior.

2. When you see someone walking by themselves, leave them alone!

3. If you pull over to help someone with car problems, remember not to assault them!

4. NEVER open an unlocked door or window uninvited.

5. If you are in an elevator and someone else gets in, DON’T ASSAULT THEM!

6. Remember, people go to laundry to do their laundry, do not attempt to molest someone who is alone in a laundry room.

7. USE THE BUDDY SYSTEM! If you are not able to stop yourself from assaulting people, ask a friend to stay with you while you are in public.

8. Always be honest with people! Don’t pretend to be a caring friend in order to gain the trust of someone you want to assault. Consider telling them you plan to assault them. If you don’t communicate your intentions, the other person may take that as a sign that you do not plan to rape them.

9. Don’t forget: you can’t have sex with someone unless they are awake!

10. Carry a whistle! If you are worried you might assault someone “on accident” you can hand it to the person you are with, so they can blow it if you do.

And, ALWAYS REMEMBER: if you didn’t ask permission and then respect the answer the first time, you are commiting a crime- no matter how “into it” others appear to be.

feebeeglee
Fri Jun 18 2010 22:06
The author's use of "A Modest Proposal" as the title of the essay implies to me that he is joking - it is the title of one of Jonathan Swift's more, ah, biting, satirical essays suggesting that the starving Irish might sell their children as meat to the rich upper class. Google "A Modest Proposal" to read the essay or discussions of it.
Tiffany
Thu Jun 17 2010 11:30
While I agree with some of the comments that men do have the capability to control themselves, I have to agree that some girls (certainly not all) dress in ways that leave absolutely nothing to the imagination. If I can see your buttcheeks hanging out of your shorts, they're too short. And, in case you were wondering- nobody wants to see your buttcheeks, or for that matter, your thong hanging out of the top of your shorts.

Dress sexy, dress comfortably, have fun- just don't take it too far.

W
Wed Jun 16 2010 23:19
@ Anonymous: Why R u staring at my junk in the gym? Maybe U shuld B paying more attn to working out insted of how swingy my junk is! Ugh!

Wanna grab a drink?

Frustrated Former Student
Tue Jun 15 2010 14:38
Absolutely ridiculous. This implies that men have no responsibility in controlling their responses when women choose to wear something that exposes skin. Rape is about power and control - it has nothing to do with sexual appeal of women. This article is insulting, ill-informed, and the editorial staff of The Batt should think twice before allowing something this poorly researched and written from being published in the future. The Christian reference is also insulting to the thousands of current and former students at Texas A&M who are a vibrant part of the campus community. Your Biblical reference only alienates people from different faiths (or those who choose to not partake in any religious doctrine) and continues to divide the Aggie community instead of uniting us.

Again - absolutely ridiculous.

Josiah
Tue Jun 15 2010 14:09
I would like to point out that alcohol does NOT lower or remove your moral senses. Alcohol DOES however, decrease your inhibition.

While I agree that some articles of clothing are a bit too revealing, I'll play devil's advocate a bit. Guys are permitted to wear shorts, even if they go above the knee, and walk out of the house shirtless. Is this not revealing? By the author's logic, should they, too, question whether or not they will be sexually assaulted? Should guys fear unwanted advances?

1.) Contrary to popular belief, males can be raped.
2.) If you admit that a male should be able to walk into the world shirtless, you are setting up a huge double standard and perpetuating narcissism in patriarchy. In most subjects, testosterone does not cause aggression unless it's increased about by four times the regular amount. Males do not have the excuse of saying "I'm a guy, so I'm just programmed to do it." Educate people that unwanted advances are, indeed, unwanted--no matter what the intended subject/victim is wearing.
3.) Why do you even feel the need to quote the Bible? If anything, this lessens the quality of your argument. Those who consider themselves die-hard Christian typically where "modest" clothing. When trying to be persuasive, you should not cater to an audience that already sides with you. Please note, that I am not, by any means, saying that those not Christian are scantily clad individuals.

Anonymous
Tue Jun 15 2010 14:03
Also, guys at the rec center and anywhere else. Please, wear underwear with your work out shorts. I am sick of seeing your junk swing and your clumsy attempts at hiding random erections.
Anonymous
Tue Jun 15 2010 13:06
You need more than help man! go to Saudi where they punish women that were raped than the men that did the henious act... TAMU TAMU TAMU what brings these folks here
Kyle
Tue Jun 15 2010 12:56
I would like to hear more discussion about how fundamentalist Christianity (and middle-class America) has created a taboo against the consumption of alcohol, thereby motivating many young people - especially 'boys' - to engage in dangerous binge drinking once free of their families' control. The vast majority of sexual assaults are related to over-consumption of alcohol. And the sense of invulnerability that comes from living in a backwards culture that is more likely to blame the victim than the rapist.

And just to be clear: Men who commit violence towards women are bad. Didn't know if we all agree on that.

Another feminist Ag
Mon Jun 14 2010 20:51
I’m disgusted by this piece. Sexual harassment does not only happen to “scantily clad” women. It can happen to any woman because we live in a culture where men feel entitled to comment on women’s bodies and take advantage of them. Rape is not about sex—it is about power and control, and the rapist can get that from attacking any woman, whether she is wearing a miniskirt and tank top or a floor length skirt and a turtleneck. Here’s a novel idea! Instead of teaching women how to “protect” themselves from these men who “just can’t control themselves” (which doesn’t work anyway because 90% of rapes are perpetrated by someone the victim knows), how about we start teaching men that they are NOT entitled to sex because a woman is wearing something that shows off her body? Matthew Poarch owes the women of Aggieland an apology for this piece of garbage perpetuating the idea that if a woman is harassed or raped, it’s her fault because she chose not to cover herself up. Victim blaming should not be tolerated, even at a highly conservative school.
Feminist Ag
Mon Jun 14 2010 09:41
Anonymous:

Actually, since Pearls and a Twin Set took their comments out of the realm of their mind, or another private way of expressing or thinking about opinions, they made their opinions public, and therefore open to counterarguments and commentary. So, by posting their opinion online, Pearls and a Twin Set made their opinion open to commentary. Also, note that I did not insult Pearls and a Twin Set personally, but rather their disturbing choice to use a public forum for students at Texas A&M to air their personal opinion of a "ridiculous" trend as authoritative advice that should be followed.

Please, everyone, remember that we are all college students, and everyone here deserves some modicum of respect. Cis-gendered females should be addressed as women, and cis-gendered males as men. No one is a child here anymore, and we all deserve the respect given to adults.

Anonymous
Sun Jun 13 2010 20:25
Jed,

Try reading for once. It helps. Feminist Ag told "Pearls" that her opinion does not matter, was not asked for, and was not wanted. I simply noted that no one asked for Feminist Ag's opinion either, to show how awful her reasoning was.

I know reading is hard, but just try a little, okay?

Jed
Sat Jun 12 2010 22:15
“Did anyone ask for your opinion? Hmm. Seems like they didn't. Funny how that works, isn't it?”

Ah, right. The "Shut up, woman!" approach.

Do you know how we deal with those who don't respect women here in Texas, 'Anonymous'?

Anonymous
Sat Jun 12 2010 03:50
Feminist Ag:

Did anyone ask for your opinion? Hmm. Seems like they didn't. Funny how that works, isn't it?

For not caring about Pearls and a Twin Set's opinion, you sure spent a lot of time and text insulting her. If you truly didn't care, you would have just left her alone. But as we all know, having women that don't agree with your viewpoint is dangerous. Shout them down! Don't let them be heard!

Brad
Fri Jun 11 2010 17:47
Wow... just wow.
Feminist Ag
Fri Jun 11 2010 09:07
To Pearls and a Twin Set:

Frankly, it doesn't matter how you think women look in clothing, nor could I care what you think of my clothing or how I look in it. Your judgement is, 1) not wanted or even particularly relevant to how I, or most other women on campus (or in the rest of the world) dress, and 2) incredibly condescending and narcissistic. What, exactly, makes you think you are entitled to judge how women dress, much less that your opinion is so important that we'll change how we dress simply because you make a vicious little online comment about how we look? Are we so stupid that we really need someone to explain to us how horrible we look in our clothing? I don't think so. Your opinion was not asked for, and is certainly not wanted.

Pearls and a Twin Set
Thu Jun 10 2010 20:54
Okay what about the current fashion at football games that includes wearing something that looks like an after-shower tube-topped like dress and cowboy boots? Ladies, I have seen absolutely no one look good in this ridiculous outfit. They are not figure flattering and they make most of you look like your top is sinking down to your waistline. Several years from now you will look at a picture of yourself in this silly get-up and be extremely embarrassed that you went out in public dressed that way. Please, next fall do think of wearing something else to the games and save the "dress" for after-shower attire.
Anonymous
Thu Jun 10 2010 19:15
That's interesting, Class of 2009. I've been harassed and yelled at while wearing a tank top and jeans, a dress, a skirt, and even full-on winter clothing! Turns out, it's not the clothes that make someone harass you, it's the fact that many people see females as objects! Crazy!

Also, that part about "especially fathers" was really creepy. Stop with the gender stereotypes and the pearl-clutching.

Matthew, you may want to check out the blog From Austin to A&M's response to your victim-blaming, mansplaining, insulting article. It's how I found this sorry excuse for an opinion. Grow up.

Anonymous
Thu Jun 10 2010 11:05
Mr. Poach,
Are you aware the Bible is 2,000 year old, multiply translated, work of fiction and mythology right? As in, it's not true, it's not law and if you're in college and haven't figured out how to create your own value systems, rather then relying on 2,000 year old stories, no one will ever be able to help you.
Jed
Thu Jun 10 2010 04:25
@Godless Heathen

I like that idea!

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